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Never Apologize for the Way You Love

So much anxiety and uncertainty can be created just from hitting the send button or tagging a certain someone in a meme. "Am I being to clingy? Does he think I'm annoying or obsessed with him?" are often thoughts we have during a new relationship. We think too much about what we think someone else is thinking, when in reality, he/she probably isn't even thinking that. Your reactions, responses and actions are what make you you and are probably a big reason why they fell for you in the first place.

From personal experience, trying to change your ways so you don't come across annoying will only hurt you in the long run because you want to end up with someone who accepts you for you, right? When I'm in a relationship I love to love and that comes along with me sending a zillion heart emojis per text and giving million and one compliments daily. I've tried to tone it down in the past, but I realized I wasn't being true to myself. I was literally looking down on myself for having a good heart and having good intentions. How messed up is that? No guy or girl is worth that!

So, maybe you text back faster then they do, that's fine. Maybe you say "I love you" a lot more then them, that's fine too. Never apologize for the way you love!

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